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LeadMeNot vs BePresent
BePresent is a screen time app for iPhone: it blocks the apps you choose in sessions and with daily limits, turns progress into streaks and XP, and can text your partners if you miss your goals. LeadMeNot works on every device and tells your partner when a rule is broken, with Safe Wall so a weak moment can't undo it.
Choose LeadMeNot if you need protection on Android, Windows, Mac or Chromebook too, and want Safe Wall rather than sessions you can end.
Where BePresent fits better: If you want a game-like way to cut screen time on iPhone, with streaks, XP, a leaderboard and text messages to your partner when you miss a goal, BePresent leans into that.
Side by side
What each one does today. Where BePresent is stronger, we say so.
| What it does | LeadMeNot | BePresent |
|---|---|---|
| Block the apps you choose | iPhone, Android, Windows and Mac | On iPhone1 |
| Schedules and limits | Daily limits on iPhone, Windows and Mac; schedules there and on Android | Scheduled sessions, daily time limits and open limits2 |
| Your partner hears about it | Email alerts when a rule is broken, plus evening reflections | Partners are texted if you miss your daily goals2 |
| Can't undo it in a weak moment | Safe Wall: your partner's OK or a waiting period | Beast Mode can't be ended early; other sessions can2 |
| Devices | iPhone, iPad, Android, Windows, Mac, Chromebook | iPhone only, with an Android waitlist2 |
Also in LeadMeNot
- Built-in Adult Websites & Apps and Gambling lists
- Keyword and phrase rules, inside apps on Android, Windows and Mac
- Block just part of a site, like youtube.com/shorts, and keep the rest
- With Monitor on, your partner is told if LeadMeNot is logged out, uninstalled or switched off
Switch from BePresent, step by step
- Install LeadMeNot on each deviceGet it at leadmenot.org/download. On Windows, Mac and Chromebook you create your account at app.leadmenot.org first, then sign in to the app.
- Follow the first-day walkthroughThe first-day walkthrough switches on the Adult Websites & Apps list and takes you through your partner and Safe Wall.
- Set your boundariesAdd rules for the apps, websites and words you want gone. Use a schedule or a daily limit for things that are fine in moderation.
- Invite your partnerPick someone you trust and add them as your partner. Alerts come by email, and the free LMN Partner app is optional.
- Check it worksType just the word leadmenottest (no .com) into your browser and press Enter. If it's blocked, you're protected.
- Cancel BePresent when you're readyIf you pay through the App Store, cancel in Settings › your name › Subscriptions, then delete the app.
Questions
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Sources
- BePresent: app blocker and screen time control
- Plugged In: BePresent review (Apr 10, 2026) (independent review)
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